The Story of Ian and Cleo

Bunny’s note: Considering my significant other and I are of varying disabilities, I want to occasionally use this blog to highlight issues of disability and sex. This first entry in that category comes from my ex “Ian” who is dating the most lovely disabled woman at present. Enjoy.

When I was first sounded out about writing a guest piece for this blog I have to confess that I had my doubts that I’d have anything very interesting to say to you. I don’t regard the circumstances of my relationship as being particularly exceptional or unusual. Continue reading

#SinfulSunday Marking His Bunny

This week for Sinful Sunday I am missing my other half, my Bad Kitty. This evening I was looking at some of the pictures we took during our time together.

This picture was taken early on in my visit. One of the things that makes me a bit anxious when we are apart is that I don’t feel like I am his significant other in the same way I do when we are together and he holds my hand when we are out, or snuggles with me on the train, couch, tube, etc. To help break down this distance a bit, I asked him to own me, not as a d/s relationship but to just take me as his because I will always be his.

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#KOTW Furries and My Anniversary with Bad Kitty

This week’s Kink of the Week is Furries which was my request for two reasons. Number 1: My one year anniversary with Bad Kitty is today and I had planned a blog post waxing lyrical about how much I love him etc and wanted to be able to fit it with a meme and Number 2: I’ve been a furry for ages and people have no idea what or what is not furry so I wanted to cut through the nonsense. Hence, I will be posting twice during this week’s KOTW.

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#WickedWednesday Work Within the Bounds of No

When I met my Bad Kitty for the first time, I apparently caught his eye as he invited me round to his for a massage. Now a massage sounded simply amazing but I don’t make it a habit to go around unescorted to someone I just met’s house. He seemed trustworthy enough but if I was going to go out there I had to lay down some ground rules so I exercised my right to say no.

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#WickedWednesday Of peace, vampire gloves and love

Today’s Wicked Wednesday prompt is: Peace

In the evening when I am blissfully located in the same place as my beloved Bad Kitty, my mind swims with possibilities. I am very much a night person so visions of giving him a blow job or getting out the violet wand for some electroplay or just having a lovely bit of sex cross my mind.

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