#WickedWednesday Work Within the Bounds of No

When I met my Bad Kitty for the first time, I apparently caught his eye as he invited me round to his for a massage. Now a massage sounded simply amazing but I don’t make it a habit to go around unescorted to someone I just met’s house. He seemed trustworthy enough but if I was going to go out there I had to lay down some ground rules so I exercised my right to say no.

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Sex and the (Bad) Kitty

As a person of a monogamous persuasion (at present) who is in a long distance relationship, sometimes one has to relive moments to remember the passion or joy in that moment. My relationship with Bad Kitty hasn’t been a long one by most people’s standards but I can say easily that I have never connected with another person as deeply as I have with him and while it scares my fiercely independent side to admit it, I’ve never needed anyone so badly.

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